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[AufAchse]

My ex-girlfriend.

We had been together for 2.5 months and it meant alot to me. I was really heart-broken when she left me, but now after 2 years, I've finally overcome it totally xD.

I would really like somehow to get in touch with her in the way that we can talk together about anything, maybe about our old times, maybe about anything else. Maybe meet up for a drink once in a while.

Well she does have a friend now so I really don't know how much I'm allowed to "dig" into her life. I just wanna be good friends with her.

What do you think would be a good thing to do for us together so that we can just chill about it and be good friends?

Thanks for any advice!
Auf Achse

[smp130]

Proceed with caution. Just because you are over her doesn't mean she's going to want to be friends with you. I know very few people who actually keep in touch with their exes. I am now friends with one of my exes who I dated for 2 years but we are talking 4 years later. Most of the time, an ex stays an ex. I don't know what my other exes are doing. I haven't seen or spoken to them in years. It's too awkward for most people to jump into friendship with an ex. It's also difficult for a lot of people to picture their ex as a friend. You can see if she wants to hang out sometime but make sure it's a public place so she won't feel as awkward. Go to a local coffee shop and talk about the present. Bringing up the past is probably a bad idea because it lead to your breakup. She may have changed in two years so find out what she's doing now. Friends don't rehash the past. They remember the past but live in the present. Hope this helps you out.

[gkn_klc78]

[quote="AufAchse"]My ex-girlfriend.

We had been together for 2.5 months and it meant alot to me. I was really heart-broken when she left me, but now after 2 years, I've finally overcome it totally xD.

I would really like somehow to get in touch with her in the way that we can talk together about anything, maybe about our old times, maybe about anything else. Maybe meet up for a drink once in a while.

Well she does have a friend now so I really don't know how much I'm allowed to "dig" into her life. I just wanna be good friends with her.

What do you think would be a good thing to do for us together so that we can just chill about it and be good friends?

Thanks for any advice!
Auf Achse[/quote]

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[ii_k3k3_ii]

Well, If you still got her number who cares what the friend says its your life your in charge of you, but you should ask her to meet up or something dont let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do if she says no your gonna have tol ive with it but if she sais yes ask her about hows she doing but dont try to seem like you want to know every detail about her life.!


P.S Sorry i suck a advice you should talk to my friend Mayra shes great

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[ii_k3k3_ii]

[quote="smp130"]Proceed with caution. Just because you are over her doesn't mean she's going to want to be friends with you. I know very few people who actually keep in touch with their exes. I am now friends with one of my exes who I dated for 2 years but we are talking 4 years later. Most of the time, an ex stays an ex. I don't know what my other exes are doing. I haven't seen or spoken to them in years. It's too awkward for most people to jump into friendship with an ex. It's also difficult for a lot of people to picture their ex as a friend. You can see if she wants to hang out sometime but make sure it's a public place so she won't feel as awkward. Go to a local coffee shop and talk about the present. Bringing up the past is probably a bad idea because it lead to your breakup. She may have changed in two years so find out what she's doing now. Friends don't rehash the past. They remember the past but live in the present. Hope this helps you out.[/quote]
Sorry but he never said anything about going back out with her....

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[ngann813]

to be honest leave the dang girl alone!!! lol maybe you could text her something. dont make a scene that she will think you still like her. are you bi or straight just curious.