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[lovepink15]

It's kinda long but please help! (;


I broke up with my boyfriend on October 6. So there is this boy and his name is Roger. I would text him mostly everyday and he told me (when I was still going out with my boyfriend) that we should make out. I said no because they were friends. And he said that my boyfriend didn't need to know. Soo the next day of school I break up with my boyfriend. And me and Roger walk all the way to the back of the cafeteria where no one is. And then we leave. The next day, he hugged me and picked me up, told me to go with him to the fourth floor, so I did.
There was a teacher there. I just hugged him and I gave him a kiss on the cheek and he gave me one back. That night he texted me saying Call me. And I texted him back and said Wanna do three way? And he said Sure. Soo then I asked for his best friend's number and he didn't have it, so then I said you might not like who I pick. He said Who? I told him it was either Ricky (a boy i like) or my best friend Nicole. And he said You know I hate Ricky so if you do it with him don't put me on three way.
I called me best friend, Nicole and I told her to be quite the WHOLE time. Soo then i did three way with Roger. And then my best friend comes on and says: Hi Jessica! I love you! (And she did it with a man voice.) So he hangs up and texted me saying Wow! And I texted him back saying are you mad at me. And yes he was. And now he won't talk to me or want to be my friend like we were.
I realized I really really fell something more than friendship for him. And I need him in my life!


Help!
Please (;

[smp130]

You are not going to like what I have to say but I have to say it: Roger is slime. What kind of friend tells his friend's girlfriend that she should make out with him sometime? Roger doesn't want to get to know you, he just wants to get in bed with you and will probably dump you after he gets what he wants. I've heard similar stories too many times and it never ends well. I am telling you this as a warning to be careful what you say and do with Roger because he's not such a good guy like you think. You are better off moving on and find a guy who knows the true meaning of friendship and respect because Roger just proved that he definitely does not.